Culturally Japanese people are not much noisy, hardly get angry and are rather faithful and hardworking.
If you have a Japanese wife, you could possibly be impressed by how hard she does housework and child care.
But also there are also a lot of Japanese wives who sneakily make scandalous behaviours, surprise us and end up ruining their family relationship.
In this article, I cover the following matters.
- Quiet and lovely Japanese wives
- The ratio of cheating women in Japan
- The reasons Japanese wives cheating
- Trigger of wife cheating
- The result of cheating in Japan
After reading this article I hope you will understand about Japanese wife scandal and also know what they are thinking internally.
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Quiet and lovely Japanese wives
Japanese ladies tend not to tell their opinions well and they are rather understanding of other people’s suggestions, ideas, or opinions.
This is because of Japanese people’s tendency to a collectivistic culture (understanding situations is more important rather than expressing themselves in Japan).
Furthermore, from a long time ago, there have been Japanese traditional thoughts that a man should lead a woman and she should trust and follow him.
Of course, that traditional way of thinking is gradually disappearing but not telling much of their opinions is still considered positive among them.
If you meet Japanese ladies for the first time, you might have a good impression of them thinking how nice they are.
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The ratio of cheating women in Japan
However, you may be surprised to see the ratio of cheating wives in Japan.
Based on the poll done by Japan sex survey (Questionnaires were answered by 5,029 people in 2020), 46.3% of Japanese women had experienced cheating on their lovers or spouses (having intercourse with affair partners).
In contrast, 57.9% of Japanese men have that experience.
I am afraid the percentage includes single women and working women, but you might feel how come after finding the percentage.
Reference: https://www.jfpa.or.jp/pdf/sexservey2020/JexSexSurvey_all.pdf
The ratio of women cheating according to age difference is as follows.
| Age | Percentage |
| 20s | 64.2 |
| 30s | 57.7 |
| 40s | 48.1 |
| 50s | 42.8 |
| 60s | 29.7 |
The younger they are, the more having the experience of cheating.
The reasons Japanese wives cheating
You might be wondering why Japanese wives cheat as well and the possible reasons are as follows.
Unsatisfied with a current husband
If spending time together for many years, almost all couples don’t keep romantic relationships with each other anymore and see each other’s negative parts.
Then many Japanese women could be frustrated by their current husbands.
There could also be sexlessness between them.
Therefore cheating could happen to fulfil their demand.
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To cover loneliness
There are some wives who want to cover loneliness by finding an adulterer relationship.
Japanese wives are usually very busy doing housework and raising kids (usually Japanese husbands tend not to help with house chores due to their hard work at office) and their routine is monotonous, and there is no moment of the heart beating and racing that they experienced when they were unmarried.
Then some wives wanted to have stimulation of their daily life and they end up cheating.
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Trigger of wife cheating
Now you could wonder what kind of triggers drives Japanese wives into cheating.
Based on research (by 300 Japanese married women who had experienced cheating aged 30-49 in 2016) by a detective agency MR the trigger of cheating is as follows.
| Trigger of cheating | percentage |
| Job-related relationship | 53% |
| Friends | 15% |
| Website | 13% |
| Ex-boyfriends | 13% |
| Introduced acquaintance | 8% |
The most trigger of cheating is job-related relationships such as colleagues, supervisors, subordinates, and business partners.
Reference: http://prnavi.jp/pr/others/20160801/54966/
I’d like to share the typical triggers of Japanese wife cheating.
Job-related relationship
Recently the number of working women after marriage is increasing and there are a lot of men in their offices.
They sometimes work together on the same project or have a meal together in Nomikai (Japanese-style drinking among workers) and there are a lot of chances leading to adultery relationships with men there.
Join a class reunion event
When the wives attend class reunion events, they meet many old classmates including ex-boyfriends. The environment is out of an ordinary event and they could possibly have a passion of love which they didn’t have for a long period after their marriage and this could lead to an extra relationship.
Through website
Actually, there are a lot of married ladies joining matching websites.
Nowadays there is a smartphone and a lot of fashion magazines post matching websites ads and there seems a lot of married ladies joining those without hesitation.
Join PTA(Parents Teacher Association) event
Joining their kid’s elementary school/junior high school PTA activities, actually, there are a lot of event of making relationships such as Nomikai (drinking event in Japan) among parents and also chances of cheating.
Drinking together among each trusting people but being drunk and it could end up making one-night stand.
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The result of cheating in Japan
There are a lot of reasons for cheating and I’d like to share what could happen after cheating in Japan.
Breakup with partner
If cheating is found by their partners it is highly likely to be divorced in Japan.
Japanese people usually never allow partners to have an extra relationship they tend to feel betrayed by their partners.
If there is any scandalous news of celebrities in Japan, the celebrity’s popularity is dramatically decreased and a lot of Japanese people sympathise with the betrayed cheated partner.
Being sued
If cheating is found by your partner, it is likely to be sued in Japan. If it end up in court, your surrounding (friends or co-workers) also notice you cheated and you possibly lose trust in society or working place as well.
If you hid that you are married and built an extra relationship, you are likely to be sued by your adultery partner as well.
Pay compensation
Adultery is not a crime, but it is an act for divorce condition under Article 770 of the Civil Code.
The article states that you can request a divorce “when your spouse has been unfaithful”.
The compensation amount could be 1 million to 5 million yen (US$7,500 to US$37,500) depending on the relationship status (If the relationship is already bad from the beginning, the amount could be low) or having kids or not.
Being fired by your company
Cheating itself is not the reason for being fired by your company but if you cheated with your co-workers, business partners or customers, and the belonging company incur loss due to that, you might be fired by your company.
If you build an adulterous relationship with them, it could affect the business relationship between the companies, and the relationship could be broadcasted by the media as scandalous news or make negative harmony in working place.
Therefore, the company could decide to fire those persons who incur losses by those illicit relationships.
Conclusion
In this article, I introduced Japanese wife scandals, and hope you understand how Japanese wives lead cheating and tragedy could come later.
Thank you for reading this article till the end.
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